I called the trustee and asked them. They said it most likely would lead to my frustration and not much action. But they did say they'd visit the bank again. I will too.
Sorry for you. I wish I had more time with my dad too. He lasted a long time, he was 95 when he passed. He would have been 100 this year. I learned a whole lot from him.
Biggest take away: When you don't exactly know what to do, ask yourself, "what would I do if I was smart?" Then do that.
Kind of corny, but it's a life lesson, don't go out of your way to do dumb. Instead, figure out what the rightest, best, or at the very least, the least bad option, and do that, instead of rushing to do dumb.
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