If you are not seeing a taper on normal turning toward the headstock and only seeing it when threading away from the headstock, two things may be happening depending on how you engage the thread. If you are threading w/o releasing the half nut then there is an issue of the slow acceleration and not cutting full depth when accelerating. If using the threading dial and the headstock is at speed, unless you have a relief at the engagement point the cutter may take a few threads before it is taking a full thickness cut as others have mentioned. You also may be getting some initial deflection in particular if your cross slide gibs and carriage gibs are not properly adjusted. You threading speed with carbide should be fine, I been using Carmex carbide laydown inserts for quite a few year, they are quite sharp and the SFM rating is less than typical carbide turning inserts. I use them over a wide range of SFM and never had a cutting depth or finish issues. I thread at between 250-600 RPM depending on the material and diameter, as I use an electronic stop I thread toward the headstock. Typically my relief grove is the thickness of the thread and +0.001" over planned thread depth.