I also use Lee molds. They are cheap enough to experiment with and they give me good results. I always clean my molds before use, brake cleaner works well. I then get all inner surfaces covered with a good coat of soot from a candle, a drop of oil on the sprue plate hinge and then set the entire bottom surface (with the mold closed) in the lead pot touching the molten lead. When the molten lead no longer cools and sticks to the mold, I know it is hot enough.
My first 2 or 3 casts usually go back into the pot (mold too cool makes a wrinkled bullet) and then its good to go. I also keep an old terry cloth towel on the bench about 24 inches away from the pot. I keep this towel soaked with cold water. Not damp, SOAKED. As I cast, the mold gets hotter, when the bullets start to get frosty, I will set the bottom of the closed and empty mold down on the towel for a second or two. This cools the mold a bit and then I cast some more. Keeping the molten lead and mold at the perfect temperature is key to casting bullets. You can turn the pot up to max temperature to speed the melt, but dial it back to about half way once the lead is melted. This is the time that I prep the mold (clean and soot), this gives the melt some time to cool.
Mold temperature too high = frosty bullet but easy to knock out of the mold
Mold temperature too cool = wrinkled bullet that is difficult to knock out of the mold
A frosty looking bullet will work fine and shoot straight but a wrinkled bullet will be under weight and not a good shooter. I always drop my bullets straight from the mold into a bucket of cold water. This quenching will harden the bullet but only if the lead is alloyed with a bit of antimony (quenching and hardness discussions are as heated as 9mm vs .45ACP discussions). My reason for quenching is simply to cool the bullets while providing a place to keep them. I used to drop them onto a dry soft towel but I would always run out of room for them, pick some up to transfer to a box and burn myself on the one hot rascal in the bunch.
Keep in mind that with water around while you are casting, you will be visited by the tinsel fairy so wear long sleeves and protect your eyes. Better yet, be very careful to never get water in the pot of molten lead.
I always knock the sprue into a separate metal pan while I'm casting. Don't toss them back into the pot until your pot is close to empty and needs re-filling. This is the time to dump them in to avoid splashing and contamination. After the sprue, add lead to the pot, let it melt and then flux.
Flux is the sorcery and voodoo part of bullet casting. If there are 500 bullet casters in a given area, there will be 5000 different flux formulas tried, discarded and then tried again. Keep it simple. The goal of flux is to remove impurities and in some cases, de-oxidize some alloying metals to return them to the melt. I use a long handled stainless steel spoon to stir and also to scrape the pot walls (the scraped off crud will float to the surface of the melt and can be skimmed off with the spoon). For flux, I toss a pea sized ball of candle wax into the pot. This will instantly melt and flow out over the surface of the lead. Stir it in/push it down and it will carburize and float to the surface. I also use a long wooden dowel to stir, this dowel turns to charcoal in the molten lead and brings impurities to the surface while grabbing the oxygen off of the oxidized alloying metals (if present) . Once the melt has been fluxed and skimmed, I do it once more with the little wax ball, this time I don't skim the crud off but allow the slag/dross to entirely cover the surface of the molten lead. This acts as a barrier, reducing oxidization of the melt.
I am likely doing it all wrong and would be called any manner of nastiness by some, but after thousands of bullets cast and sent down range with excellent results, I'll accept the name calling.