I've purchased BXA tool holders from Shars on multiple occasions, and they all work. I think Shars has bent over backwards to do you a solid and that Grizzly is probably selling something that is out of spec.
There are two important ramifications: You whined to the wrong people, and it's likely that no other vendors toolholders will fit your tool post, so this will be an ongoing problem for you.
I am in no way affiliated with Shars, but I have always received good product and good service from them. My experience with Grizzly is also pretty good, but I have had a few problems with them.
I suggest you order another toolholder from CDCO, amazon, or elsewhere to see if it fits. If it doesn't, you should replace your toolpost. Whether you can return it, or have to just buy another, you definitely want a toolpost that takes "standard" tool holders.
GsT
There are two important ramifications: You whined to the wrong people, and it's likely that no other vendors toolholders will fit your tool post, so this will be an ongoing problem for you.
I am in no way affiliated with Shars, but I have always received good product and good service from them. My experience with Grizzly is also pretty good, but I have had a few problems with them.
I suggest you order another toolholder from CDCO, amazon, or elsewhere to see if it fits. If it doesn't, you should replace your toolpost. Whether you can return it, or have to just buy another, you definitely want a toolpost that takes "standard" tool holders.
GsT