The 4 hex screws on top of the cross slide & the set screw (that you previously thought was a missing screw) are used to adjust the the cross slide backlash.
You can loosen the four outer hex screws, tighten or loosen the center set screw, and then tighten down the four outer hex screws to make the cross slide handle easier or more difficult to rotate. This is how I lock my cross slide!
One *extremely* important point here is that if you make it too tight the cross slide power feed will not work, much in the same way that a cross slide power feed would not work if the cross slide were locked.
To make the same point again, one day I had my cross slide handle (rotation) set so tightly that I was afraid for several minutes that my cross slide power feed had ceased operating! So don’t go crazy with those 4 screws with the set screw in the middle; easy does it. If you are using these as a cross slide lock, definitely make sure that you loosen them back up before using the cross slide power feed!
If you have a taper attachment, then it may not be aligned properly and the end bearing is too tight. I haled install one of these on the 1640 lathe, it was very heavy and a two man job. If the alignment was not spot on the it would bind. These lathes from the factory should be pretty spot on as t their specs. and tolerances, if the cross slide handle is too tight with the gibs removed then it is either the bearings or the nut. Manual on the taper attachment should be the same as the SB1263. I would speak to PM/QMT and take their direction before going further, the taper attachment is very heavy and its alignment needs to be very accurate. There were some taper dowel pins installed to set the alignment, and could be an issue with the end bearing preload.
Like you, I had PM install the taper attachment, and I didn’t want to mess with their install vis a vid the aforementioned “blocked cross slide lock (set screw)”.
You should experiment with those 4 outer bolts and the inner set screw to get your cross slide handle rotation to the desired stiffness. I like mine pretty tight.
I am sorry that I have not joined in on this discussion until now, but I am working crazy long hours & finishing up a bunch of spindles for the dividing head group project.