I don't want you to take this personally, because I know it's safety assurance with you and not psychology, but this point of view is superstitious in a way. The belief in superstitions is similar to object permanence. Object permanence is part of Piaget's theory of cognitive development, where we learn that things don't disappear when we close our eyes, and when we put something in a box, it remains in that box.
In other words, the idea that a pilot light must be watched is usually outgrown by preschool, mentally. Funny how it gets some of us.