I had a mail order business for 22 years. I charged actual shipping costs for shipments, not including handling fees, driving a shipment into UPS or USPS or in some cases, the air freight terminal for overnight deliveries. It is a business expense and has to be accounted for in either the markup on the merchandise or direct costs to the customer (unless you wish to go pout of business). I don't think any of us would begrudge an fair charge for shipping. It's the vendors that use high costs for improving their profit margin.I do all the boxing and running to the PO for my wifes ebay sales. She charges only the cost of shipping. I don’t get a cent for my time, packing materials, gas for the car and all the other nonsense. And my wife will still get complaints for buyers about the cost of shipping! I say to them, get into car and drive all over town and buy it that way. And by the way, eBay charges their sellers fees on shipping costs as well!!! So if you sell on eBay you get charged a finial value fee for the item and the same percentage fee for the shipping costs!!!
I had recently ordered a 10 pk of mini USB sockets from a Chinese vendor. $.98 and free shipping. It took about 2 months to get them though. I can't send a greetings card to the UK for $.98.I can order 6 of those neat little "credit card" folding knives you see on TV for over $8.00 plus shipping. I get them for 99 cents each,and shipping is free! This is from Hong Kong. The package says "China Mail",and shipping was $1.00. I'm wondering if shipping isn't subsidized by the Chinese government. How they can send that package from China to Va. for $1.00,I don't know. And,somehow the seller makes money. I keep giving those knives to friends and ordering more.
A good friend is making an around-the -world voyage via container ship. He is on the last leg of his journey back to the states from Southeast Asia and will be at sea for 8 weeks. Add to that waiting to get space in a container, going through customs, potential dockworker's strikes, and shipping to the final destination and 6-8 weeks sounds very reasonable.$46 from Hong Kong would be reasonable for <1 week delivery, but 6-8weeks is fishy as nothing takes that long to ship. They likely do not have it in stock or something like that.