I didn't want to cut the the servo's cable and I don't know if that "extension" has SOME purpose for testing /trouble shooting down the road, so I figured I just go ahead and buy one. Digikey? Forget it. Impossible to find anything there (though I'm pretty sure they have everything) I searched the internet for a couple hours. Under 15 pin, VGA cables really just come up. Under serial, just DB9 come up. What's a straight through and what's not? I don't know. There actually was a comment in Amazon for a VGA that actually changed the pin through. I will just have to add some length.
Crazy how difficult (impossible) it is to find a 15pin (de15?) straight though, of any length....
Thanks for the help though everyone, I'm glad this ended up being nothing.