I know it may be hard to justify for home shop use, but good taps are worth an investment. Of course, they will all break, so just because it's expensive doesn't mean you can abuse it. Proper alignment is ultra important, especially for the smaller, machine screw sizes.
If want good taps, it does cost a fair amount of money. Look up a Vega, OSG, or Emuge taps. Best there is, and will last a long, long time in a home shop. But, as I said, they aren't cheap. If you have a steady hand, and a good setup, they will dull long before you just break them. But eventually, even the best taps will dull, and you have to know when to toss them, hopefully before they do break.