For a quill stop for your mill, would something like this work for your mill? The collar has an internal spline matching the spindle spline and a tightening screw. You position it for your depth of cut, you can use gage blocks, endmill shanks, calipers, etc., then tighten it. As the spindle lowers, it bumps up against the upper side of the pulley and stops the spindle lowering. My mill doesn’t have a power downfeed, so nothing needs to get disengaged, you feed until you can’t feed any more.