Ive been learning from YT and dont have much machining experience.
That can be a double edged sword when you're learning new stuff. There are a lot of channels, a lot of folks sharing their work, and some of them doing amazing things.
Don't let the "pace" of a project on Youtube fool you.
Things that look simple often involve some underlying technique, that especially on the more professional/ex professional channels, and they often let the underlying technique slip by unexplained.
Sometimes a finished part with ten operations done to it, that comes out perfect, isn't the same piece you saw them start with.
You can and should get what you can out of Youtube, but BE CAREFUL, as you (almost) have to know what you're doing in order to sort out the good from the poor.
You have some good recommendations for some good channels.
I'm gonna second (third? Fifth?) the recommendation for "That Lazy Machinist" (start at the beginning), Blondi Hacks, (most all have something in the way of tips and hints), And mrpete222, (another to start at the beginning).
I have no real goal as such, but eventually i would like to make simple components.
Here is what i have been doing, just so we have an example.
I have some aluminium bar, which is 40mm diameter.
I used a band saw and cut a 60mm length, as i felt this could be chucked up safely.
I faced each end and also used the tailstock to centre drill and then drill out a hole in one end.
(not sure if my order of operations is right)
That sounds about right.
I found that the bar is nothing like a straight piece (which i understand) and when in motion that was very obvious.
I wasn't there, so I'm speculating, but here's something that I expect is going on.
1, lathe chucks (especially 3 jaw chucks, are not perfect. There is some technique to get a theoretically perfectly cylindrical piece to clamp straight in the jaws. If you cut the piece with a band saw, the ends were not square. (Really darned close maybe, but not square. Pushing that against the chuck face can influence how "straight" the part is when the jaws clamp it. Then when you face the opposite end, it takes that "split angle", where the part clamped down somewhere in between "straight" in the jaws, and "flat" against the chuck. And the new facing gets crooked. So you flip the part, and register it again against a crooked face....
Not to say that raw material is perfect. It isn't. But if you've got to duck every time it comes around there's probably more going on.
So I have used the lathe to turn it down and it is now 37mm diameter (which seemed a lot to remove - but i might be wrong)
Was that one cut? I'm guessing that's a very doable amount in "easy materials", it really depends on your lathe, your tools, and your materials. I'd venture to guess that you're into the "roughing cut" territory on your lathe (I might be wrong though). I think your finish cuts would probably be smaller than that.
And while you're reducing diameters... Make sure you KNOW if your cross slide dial reads tool movement (like any other tool in the shop, indicating the depth of cut, in which case it reads RADIUS reduction), or if it's a "diameter dial" that doubles the tool movement, so when it reads 1mm for example, the tool actually moves 0.5mm, and the DIAMETER is reduced by indicated amount. Either works fine, but you must KNOW which you have.
Currently my goal is that i need to learn how to turn both ends of the stock so the piece has the same diameter along the full length of the stock,
Not overly impotant what that number is atm, but lets same im aiming for 36mm along the length of the piece...
That's a tall order, and it's really going to end up being determined by the TOLERANCE in your parts. You can trun anything without a care , run over it with a file, and it'll look the part. If the actual dimension is both tight tolerance and critical to the application, you might find yourself turning between centers. Collets (All of them, and the chuck to hold them....) can help with that, keep the error real low, so faking it with a file can make a far tighter toleranced part. I wouldn't run out and get those just yet, as there are nine thousand kinds of collets and each kind has it's own size ranges and basically, you really need to know what you do the most before you jump off of that cliff.
As it stands, i have a ridge in the material at the moment. Its marginal but i can feel it.
A defect in a part will usually offer you a clue as to what's going on.
If that ridge is equal, all the way around the part, it's probably a depth of cut/repeatability problem with the lathe or the operator.
If that ridge is split so that it's "opposite" on opposite sides of the diameter, it's a problem with runout/repeatability in how it was clamped in the chuck, which may be a chuck problem or an operator problem.
If the "high side" of the ridge is ALL on the same side of the part, all the way around, but the size of the step varies, you've got both of those problems going on.
I think my speed and feed is 'ok' as the finish seems alright on the face and along the length of the aluminium, again i welcome any input and again, as i really am a novice.... please feel free to berate me or offer advice that you might consider way to obvious to mention!
Take that exact same bar, and do the exact same thing again. (Or a new chunk, or whatever). Stick it in the chuck, and measure the runout. Preferably with a dial indicator clamped, screwed, or "magneted" onto the cross slide or carriage, so you can measure the runout, AND traverse with the carriage to measure "crookedness".
Ideally (depending on tolerances, which parts of your parts are "working parts" with tight dimensions, and all that, precisely mounting a part would include-
Putting the part in the jaws as deep as you possibly can WITHOUT the crooked end touching the chuck face. As the part comes near to snug, you would rotate the part in the jaws as they're clamping. That helps it "find" the flat edge of the jaw that will hold it. Then you'd verify, with an indicator, that the piece is running true both at the chuck, and at the right end of the part. In practice, you're going to get a feel for how stuff goes in there, a feel for working with tolerances, and you're not going to spend all day mounting every single piece. But you'll want to play with that, and learn to read "shapes" on your dial indicator, as well as numbers. What does a "not round" piece of round bar look like when you rotate it under a dial indicator? What does a "round but off center" round bar look like. And again with moving the carriage (indicator attached). What does a straight but crookedly mounted part look like. What does a bananna shaped piece of bar part look like. This stuff will start to be very important if you want to ensure you get a part out of stock that's just barely big enough, or if you're repairing existing things, or you're making sub let parts for the space program, or whatever.
Starting out there WILL be successes, and there WILL be failures. You WILL scrap a part here and there. Save all of those. Pick numbers, and hit the new number, just to do it. Bore a hole in one to a dimension to make a press fit with the other one. Do dumb stuff that even an apprentice knows is bad form to see exacty what stuff looks like, feels like, and what the results are when you clamp wrong, cut too deep, cut too shallow. Cut some threads into stuff that is not to any dimension in the world, just to get the muscle memory down. Basically, just keep at it. Getting started can be a steep learning curve, and it never really ends, but it flattens out quickly after you get some of the basics.