It's not the cats fault, if she has not been cared for, feed, and had it's litter box cleaned, that's not the animals fault but the person who was caring for it. Mistreating an animal will make it weird. I have 5 cats and they are very loving and clean, all mistreated strays taken in. Provide them a clean litter box and they will use it, give them good quality nutritious food and they are content. The agression that cat is showing is a sure sign that it has been mistreated and is on edge and in defense mode. I don't think the guy you trusted was very trust worthy, abused cat and money missing, house a mess, doesn't add up to me. I think you just need to get controll of your house and take care of your cat and relax a little. Animals are not just disposable, they count on us for their welfare. I think when you calm down you will see things clearer.
I am beginning to think you are right, 1st, I told him to go in my desk, in this one spot, there was some money there, to pay a bill, says he cant find it. Keeps saying 1,000 times, "I don't want you to Think I took it" Told him I trusted him. But he keeps saying it. So today, I heated up a piece of pizza, went in my cupboard for grated cheese, none, so I have/had about 5 cans in the ice box, all GONE, (See, I used to cook a lot of pasta, with homemade sauce, and GOT TO HAVE MY GRATED CHEESE, so just about every time I was at the store, I would get a can, so I would never run Out. I KNOW I had about 5 cans in there, Kraft, Store brand, esp if it was on sale.
I called up and asked what the hell happened to all my Grated Cheese? Grated Cheese? I said Yes, sprinkle cheese, I had about 5 cans, "Oh I don't know nothing about that" There got to be something wrong with this guy, he must take stuff, and not know he did it, or is a pretty good lier. He was the only one here. If someone got in, they would have tore the place apart, how would they know where the money was? He had to take the money, and He had to take the cheese.
He spends all his money at the track, then *****es all week at work about how the place sucks, and he has been there 20 years, and only making XX amount, and is mad at the world.
He says he spends $20.00 at the track. Bull ****. Then he let it slip how he lost $250.00 this week cause of overtime. (football)
He keeps calling back today, but I don't answer.