I didn't read every response to your thread, there were A LOT of them. I assume you are simply making a bar with threads for the sake of being able to demonstrate you can cut threads? That would make the most sense to me. When I was in college they had us make practical items that were actually useful for something. We made a no twist clamp for example and that was my thread training. To be honest other than a fairly automatic machine I used to set up at a shot, and only because I was the only guy there smart enough to figure it out, that was the only threading I've ever done by the book so to speak. Setting up that machine was a bit different from just using a lathe because it was designed just to cut threads and do it in one cut. Also, my clamp use the type of thread that is used in a clamp...which is, of course, different from typical screw or bolt threads...so I don't think what my threading training taught me is the same thing as you have to accomplish.
That being said, I think Mikey said it best when he pointed out that you CAN'T take it out and keep concentricity. They used to pound into us the importance of it, especially in lathe work but actual demonstrations didn't get into a lot of detail about it. I don't real the instructor showing how to check as we went to make sure thing were right, WITHOUT taking it out of the machine or what to do if we didn't have a choice. When class is done you're done.... You have to take it out. For sure, once you start cutting threads, you really can't take it out and think you can put it back in and it work. I'm sure some really good and really talented guys can do this but I just happened to have the knack for basic machining while going to school for engineering drafting and design. The only reason we had to take the machine tool sequence was to make us better designers. Most of the guys barely make it through the class, some were from the outside companies getting certifications and about a quarter were people from the "machinist program". So we were mostly looked at as, "they just need to get by and get the general concept, they aren't going to look for work making chips". But I did one time when there was one of the many layoffs at one of the many companies I worked at in the small area I lived in. Work was very seasonal but there was no season...LOL But I, again, kind of had a knack for it, probably because I'd worked on cars all my life till then and had a fair understanding of machined parts and therefore machine tools.
I'm not going to be able to help you much with your project but I wanted to say that you came to the right place. Some of these guys, for a hobby board, are just incredible machinists! I mean WAY over my head just in general conversation! If anyone can help you get through your projects they can. But listen, you ARE going to have that "ah ha" moment and this will become far easier. It might help to think of the machines as just a tool, no different than a chisel or a wrench. They do a job and that's it. If you use the wrong wrench or don't hold it squarely, it'll slip and round the head of the bolt and probably bust your knuckles LOL. This isn't rocket science, don't get bothered because you're struggling. Most if this is not that complicated and these guys will help you with the little blocks that you run into. I shocked everyone when I aced the class and made everything perfectly and got all points available. I had better than a 4 point if you consider getting extra points here and there for test questions or extra projects. But I really thought it was cool what you could accomplish with fairly simple tools. We also learn to understand the basics of CNC programming and machining. I ended up excelling at that in the field too. This isn't that hard and you WILL get it. Just remember that there may be more than one way to do just about anything..but sometimes there's only one way. If anything moves while you're cutting...it's probably scrap. Almost every time unless you started with a lot more steel than you needed. LOL.
Keep the faith, try not to get too frustrated, there's a learning curve to peeing in the toilet, so there'll certainly be a learning curve to making a precision work piece.
Wayne