Ok - that pic helps a lot.
I suppose the blue faucet part is truncated in the drawing, but if you have the swing just mount it and turn what you need off of the bottom.
Other than that, a single or double split ring on the bottom would work well enough. It will be in compression when you screw the stem into the base. Also it's diameter is not critical, it can be a smidge smaller than the stem.
Actually, looking at how it assembles, I'm guessing that you thread the stem in until the faucet swing feels right and compresses the top washer enough to prevent excessive leaking. I'd just throw another rubber o-ring on the bottom (might help with bottom leaks). The faucet body itself is going to do a good job limiting flex, and even if you fill the gap/mistake there would still be some clearance between it and the base so you can set the faucet swing feel.