I think one of the reasons they're typically not topped-off with oil, is because it will eventually leak out of the operating lever thru-hole. I've not seen a unit with a bearing to support the shaft so, a good deal of pressure invariably ends-up on the seal.
Oh, no need for admiration -not in the least. I live to take things apart and have a pretty good track record of successful reassembly...
I'm really sorry yours is putting up so much struggle and in a way, I feel badly since it was my suggestion to take it apart. On the flip side though, it was previously not usable so at the least, it's a learning experience...
Ray