OK, I returned to the dual half-nuts and double-checked everything as suggested: The leadscrew is now engaging properly, even when engaged I can rotate it by hand. The grub screw is vital to proper operation, there's one spot where it allows positive engagement and proper grasp of the leadscrew.
Thank you all for taking the time to help me out, I'm a happy camper .
Thank you all for taking the time to help me out, I'm a happy camper .