First, cause no harm. You cannot just go to a store and buy a new head if it is damaged during the surfacing operation. Scrap the head, scrap the engine, perhaps. Mounting it on a face plate can be dicey and it scares me for an irreplaceable part. Kernbigo just beat me to it, but i would lap the head on a flat surface using sandpaper and a surface plate, plate glass, or something KNOWN to be FLAT. You can take your time, and check it with a good straightedge as you go. The gasket will conform to some amount of imperfection at the joint, so don't overdo the surfacing operation. Take your time, do it carefully, make sure to hold the part low down so it stays flat and does not have a tipping component to the lapping, ruining the flatness. Emphasize flat, not pretty, and go no deeper than necessary to make the gasket seal.
Edit: TQ60 beat me to it as well. I need to learn to type faster, or quit eating breakfast while I do this... 8^) I would not use the rotary lapping method for this part. More dicey, less likely to stay flat. You could also take the part to a machine shop and have it Blanchard ground, but where is the personal satisfaction in that?
Second edit: Missed that the center stands proud of the gasket surface. I would still lap it, just on a flat donut shaped plate with abrasive paper.