Arc length and torch angle together with unsteady hands and not enough amperage are the #1 culprit for not being able to fuse aluminum butt/corner joints from what I've seen on various forums throughout the years, and trial and error on my part. You have good gas coverage, just make sure you dial in 1.5A per 0.001" of thickness (about 180A for 1/8" thick aluminum), because that is what you need at the beginning of the weld to get the puddle started; then you need to back off the amperage via the footpedal as the aluminum starts to quickly wick heat away into the rest of the part. Also filler wire size plays an important role, it should not be overly large especially if you are scared to pour on the power at the beginning. 1/16" filler rod diameter, but most importantly, keep your arc tight and straight (no more than about 3mm or so, and keep the tungsten within 10-15° of the vertical/normal/perpendicular to the joint/surface), and avoid gaps! Gaps make everything 10x more difficult. With parts butted up together properly, you can easily pour on the power and fuse the joint almost instantly so long as you're not wearing your skirt and are wearing your big boy pants when you mash the footpedal down. That first pic in post #17 could have been easily done if you would have just poured down the gigawatts. Don't be scared, but in order to not be scared, keep practicing on scrap. You need to push and "mentally power through" that initial scared-ness of using a lot of amperage by learning the timing. Learn to pour the power quickly, but you also have to react fast because you need to learn when to add filler (at 90° to the tungsten I might add, to the leading edge of the puddle, and quickly! ), and when to move right along and simultaneously determine when and how fast to ease up off the footpedal. It's a large balancing act with 5-6 different variables that you have to learn how to control with precision.
As much as you described the situation, you never actually told us anything about the machine, it's settings, your technique, torch setup, tungsten stickout, arc length, or anything else that really matters. Hopefully all those things are 100% in order, that way you can simply focus on technique which will come with practice. I know I get out of practice quickly if I don't have any projects on the horizon, and I have to get scrap the dial my brain in all over again.