"Why do photos load rotated sideways?"
Mark,
Try to load the Pictures to your PC first, and use a photo editor to reorient and or resize them, then save them that way.
It will make posting a whole lot easier.
I use a free program called irfanview to resize and fix the orientation of all pictures from my phone or camera.
http://www.irfanview.com/
I did send them to my PC. They are correctly oriented on my PC. They only load that way when I upload them here. And it seems after a day or so they are correctly oriented on here. I just don't know .