The differential mounts do not need to be very heavy to work. The only thing they need to do is locate the diff and prevent it from rotating under torque. If you drive in 2WD most of the time, that is even less duty for the mount.
The example you give uses the front sway bar as its main anchor. That is already decoupled from the frame by the sway bar bushings. You may want to soft mount the differential with rubber bushings and shoulder bolts that can be fully torqued in the diff case. Under 4x4 conditions, vibration would be coming from the driveshaft. The CV joints will run smooth on their own. You can look at the rubber isolation bushings on the transmission and transfer case to give you an idea about how much rubber is right for your differential. I don't think it will take much.
It is an interesting problem, so I am interested in seeing your solution!