Wow everyone is so helpful
I think I'm going to hook the trailer back up to my rig to stabilize it, then jack it up put some jack stands under the axle or blocks, what ever ends up working. When we put it in the trailer we had the sling as close to the chuck as possible to balance it out.
But like I said I'm fried tonight. I haven't been sick for over a year now, and in just one day I've got no voice at all and am sick as a dog. I can only manage a whisper right now. I need to get some hydraulic oil for the crane and I'll get it off the trailer tomorrow and take the trailer back and come inside and stay warm. I can research the lathe and have information when I'm feeling better.