I just figured out the same thing...I'm an idiot. I bought a couple of these when I bought a bunch of other taps and hadn't needed them yet. As soon as I got home I measured mine and got the same measurement you did, then looked carefully and saw the STI. Then I went to the eBay link and saw I missed that detail and ordered the wrong ones.
I'm really sorry...I gave you bad advice and there's no excuse for that. I wish I could help. Heck, I'd send you a 3/8-24 bottoming tap if I had one, but it turns out I don't.
I know it's no consolation but I'm beyond irritated with myself