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My condolences; my father passed in 1994 and my mother 10 years later. Other than some books and odds & ends that my mother hadn’t already given to my sisters & me the only things that we sorted through when she passed included some aluminum dining accessories that were probably expensive in the late 30’s when they were married. I do have a number of carving and other small tools from my father (kept in a walnut Gerstner chest I purchased at the time for a [now] ridiculously low cost), including a leather stitching tool and other items he got from Herter’s.Seems like that was my parent's philosophy too. My mom passed away earlier this year, dad passed 3 years ago. I took possession of their home that was built in 1964. Going through papers a few weeks ago, I found and disposed of their tax return from 1964. . . I miss the parents and try to NOT dwell on complaining about cleaning out all of the stuff they left behind. I kept my dad's dog tags from the Marine Corp, but what to do with all of the other "keepsakes"? My brother-in-law had a good comment, "If your mom's high school diploma (or insert countless other items) was so important to her, why was it stuffed in an envelope, packed in a shoe box, and buried under 100 lbs. of other stuff in a closet you can't get into because a sewing cabinet is in front of it". He has a good point, the diplomas and yearbooks all went in the trash.
I'm hoping to NOT do that to our kids! The coolant pump for my Tormach crapped out last year and was replaced. Still had the old, burned out pump in the shop, until last trash day.
Bruce
While I do have a lot of scrap, I usually strip out broken items for (potentially) useable parts rather than saving bulky stuff. I probably will start going through my collection of bits in the next few years, maybe not disposing of stuff, but at least sorting it.