A bit of news. Don't know if this can help others. My 1236T is now in my garage. It was delivered by Saia and I paid for liftgate service. The driver managed to put it into the bed of my pickup truck. I drove it around back to the garage.
In retrospect, I would have tried my original idea of putting the crate on wheels instead, although it may not have worked well here because the pallet under the crate was in poor shape (the rest was perfect).
The issue is that it took my son and I 2.5 hours to unload it.
First there was a problem of height clearance. I have only about 80 inches under my garage door and the lathe on top of the bottom of the crate plus the pallet was quite high and I had trouble lifting it high enough with the crane. And with each inch, the truck bed would also raise itself from relief. The other issue is that the tailgate is in the way and there isn't much reach with a shop crane. Thought about removing it but decided it would be too much trouble. I ended up raising the gate, then being able to start lifting the lathe, then inch it backwards until it was balanced and we were able to lower the tailgate again.
I ended up using one of the lift slings from harbor freight, passed around the ways (but behind the screw/shafts) and through the first hole in the webbing in between the ways. Then a smaller strap, perpendicular, around the ways and the backsplash, just tight enough to prevent rolling in that direction. The tailstock was all the way back, and the carriage around the middle and the balance was fine.
Now it's resting temporarily on the 2 parts of the cabinet. Will stay there while I do all the VFD and DRO work before going to its final place. Don't count on being able to put it on the ground directly with a crane as there isn't enough space between the legs.
Anyway, it's done, a bit of relief for now