I try to teach my guys , if you're gonna F it up , do it in the beginning of the job . That way you don't waste much time .Taps are cheap, getting one out of the last hole in a piece you spent hours working on is not
I too have done as you described. A wider included angle insert will be stronger for example a square insert with a 90 degree corner will be stronger than the 50 degree included angle on your DCMT insert.
I recommend NOT reducing the shank smaller than the tap drill. The tap can cut crooked more easily if the shank is reduced too small.
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