Okay, looks better with the smaller flat at the nose.
I hone with diamond stones on both sides and the top. Be very careful to maintain your angles when honing; it is very easy to alter the angle. Just before you finish hone the top, do a light hone on the nose flat and then do the top. The tool should be very sharp and will cut clean threads if your angles are accurate.
Most threading tool charts do not specify the tool shape; it just includes the angles so I don't know what everyone else uses. What I found when using the chart angles on a threading tool is that there were a lot of burrs on the threads so the overall finish was poor. I found, after multiple trials, that a 15 degree relief angle on each side cut the cleanest threads and tool life is very good. My current threading tools are well over a decade old and are only honed occasionally but they cut clean, accurate threads with very little force. Very importantly, they do not deflect smaller diameter work pieces as much as a carbide tool so the threads are more accurate.
The key advantage to a inserted carbide threading tool, in my opinion, is that you don't have to grind them. Of course, you can also alter the helix angle on an inserted tool but that is only required on large diameters with coarse threads.