They are Mike . 3 months ago we celebrated their daughter's marriage . This morning , I walked in from work and found a beautiful Thank You picture on the counter . A lengthy note saying how we are extended family was attached . Our house phone was ringing off the hook all day keeping me awake which of course had me Pi$$ed . I was awokned by screaming from my wife and she told me the news . My daughter immediately drove her down to their house . My children and their children are all of the same ages , the " girls " were pregnant together thru the years , we vacationed together , went to school together , grew old together . It's just a total shock at this point .