Clever fixture for measuring the dovetail, Pete. Blue up those surfaces too, so you get a sense of the plane and not just the single line.
I'll be offline for a few days. I don't have the experience to teach, but have a grasp of the basics. I hope Richard keeps chiming in here, especially on measurement of the geometric surfaces.
The 3 points usually involves two at one end and one at the other. Here's a reference;
Set those points about 30% in from the ends and you get minimal sag of the piece. Hard to do with an odd shape like you have. Hence Keith Ruckers cradle with two points touching on each side of the casting at one end, and creating the single point under the bottom at the other.
That picture of the scraped bar that Richard posted is a pretty good representation of what you want the ways to look like. You don't want 100% blue. About 40-60% blue is the goal, kinda splotchy and evenly distributed. The bare (low) spots will hold oil so it gets spread around as the ram cycles.
You get that pattern by alternating the direction of your scraping, 45* across the ways, then switching to the other 45* and scraping again. Testing for hinge and flat and blue coverage after each or each couple of passes. Looks like you have been doing a crosshatch, but perhaps a bit more aggressive would give a more definite pattern.
As RIchard mentioned, it's important to not roll the edges (which is easy to do) by lifting off the part as you scrape to the edge. And test with the part on the surface plate, using a feeler gage to see if you have gaps around the edge. You are going to scrape to the lowest point on the ways, might as well know where that is early on.
Only other suggestion I can offer right now is to watch some youtube videos by people who have a background in the process. We mentioned Stefan Gottswinter and Keith Rucker. There are others too. Stick with conventional methods and you won't get too far off into the weeds.