With my kids I’m always amazed they listen to me. I think the big life changing moment was when my son was about 7-8 and his crazy cousin got a bb-gun and was bugging him to get one too. She was the female equivalent to Eddie Haskell
She would talk my two into doing bad stuff and stand there innocent when they got caught. She also would supply my two with stupid arguments and lies when caught. It was the usual crap I used when a kid so I knew who the ring leader was.
We just want to target practice. I told him, this is what will happen. First you’ll set up some targets, then within 5min she’ll get bored and start wanting to shoot birds, then she’ll get you over shooting up grandma’s old car behind the shop. My son was horrified and said that would never happen. So his mom bought him the crappiest bb pistol at WallyWorld because I refused to participate in this fiasco.
That night my son came to me and said “dad you were right. It happened EXACTLY like you said! When I tried to stop her from shooting the poor birds(not a hunter) she went over and started shooting the windows in Grandma’s car! “ Of course that’s when Grandma saw them because she came out to water her garden. Of course Edwina Haskell got away with it even though she was caught shooting the windows. She told Grandma right there my son talked her into it.
When my son told me he wanted to become and artist I gave him my old stuff and bought him the books and whatever supplies he needed. One day he’s working out of his first “How to Draw Marvel Comics” book and looks up at me with tears in his eyes and says “I’ll never be any good at this”. I replied with the old saw(which at 11yrs he’d never heard) art is 99% perspiration and 1% inspiration, it’s just plain old hard work. He sat there looking at me for a long time as the gears ground and I never heard another complaint. He would only ask me, now what? The big one for me was anatomy and as luck would have it the local bookstore was blowing out “ An Atlas of Anatomy for Artists” hardcover for $15! I didn’t know it was THE bible for anatomy. Took him almost a year to work his way all the way through that book all on his own. I think he was 13-14? Like his old man an auto didactic. He went digital on his own working in the comic industry then went Indy. His weird sense of humor is his own and this is his YouTube.