tmarks, unfortunately, I have seen this happen several times over with other hobbies that I have. One in particular is target archery. It seems that every time a new guy gets "the bug" and decides to dive in whole hog, they want to jump straight to a high level of shooting. It doesn't work like that. Mistakes are made often, and often they are the best teachers / lessons. I have seen many a newbie get ****** off and quit because they didn't want to slow down, put in their time, and learn how to do things the right way. As you can imagine, safety in a sport where deadly weapons are involved, is paramount. Too often I have seen people pulling way too much draw weight for them to comfortably handle, all in the name of having the fastest bow possible. Then when they grunt and strain to get the bow pulled back, after pointing in towards others, they get completely offended when someone politely corrects them. Inevitably, they storm off and often never return.
Sadly, we are in an age of instant gratification and quickly obtained knowledge. The problem comes in when people try to apply their quickly obtained knowledge without any experience. People think that they are able to instantly become whatever they seem in a youtube video. However, experience is only gained through time and practice, neither of which some people are willing to devote.
I can also say that this is truly the most polite, respectful forum that I have ever been a part of. I have never seen anyone call someone else a derogatory name, insult someone else, or belittle anyone else. Everyone here is helpful. Hopefully zoom zoom will return when he cools down and realizes that the people here actually give a crap and don't want to see him get hurt or burn his house down.