Sami-
I've been out of the game for the most part since I raced the Megavalanche a few years back. Just during the train-up, I broke two fingers in my hand, sustained a neck injury that still causes big issues, got a puncture wound from a branch in my leg from crashing into a tree, ruptured the saphenous vein in my right leg (twice from riding too soon after injury), had blood clots between my shin and peretoneum, and more bruises than I can remember.
I have had 3 VPP (DW link) bikes, and all of them ate pivot bearings. Most of the cartridges are doubled for single race bearings, some use double row bearings. The doubles are very expensive and last a year (at 100 km of singletrack a week). I have not had any issue at the shock eyes on those bikes. One thing I've noticed after servicing lots of Fox (I made Fox parts in the CNC shop I worked at in "99-'00), Rock Shox, and CC shocks is that the tolerances in the bushing eye are broad. I suspect they tolerance match the mating parts. Sometimes, bushings press in and out easily, other times it's sketchy. Some of my RWC kits have fit better than others. One kit I installed on a Fox was so tight that the bearings got brinelled, so I get what you're saying. Oilite or other bronze sounds great from the point of view of this forum, but I think it is too hard and will ruin your shock eyes. If you achieved a perfect press fit with bronze, it might be okay, but I think up until now that aluminum has been the choice because it is light and soft enough to be sacrificial. Maybe hard plastic is the way to go, or some bushed combination. But combining rigid and soft material brings us back to the status quo of a soft bushing and aluminum inserts.
When I'm doing a lot of riding, I wash, oil, and re-grease once or twice a week. That keeps everything working and dialed. I just don't give crud a chance to accumulate.