I have heard of them for one input, into two outputs, but do they make them for two inputs, into one output?
Interesting idea. For that little use (I'm a big coffee drinker, so don't take that wrong, just comparing to other uses in the house), I would not do any thing fancy. likely just the valves, and probably add two pressure gauges, so you could check every so often to see if the flow is being impeded. Just remember you would have to check the gauges when the pot is being filled, or another valve on the output line is open. With no flow, the pressures would be the same.
A downstream psi gage will read the combined psi due to the installed tee. A regulator in each line will do the same, only maintain downstream psi by giving you more untreated water as the filter plugs. You will need a device that reads FLOW, I'm sure such a device exist but it will be pricy.