I prefer an edge finder to the wiggler.
I'm just being a little dense tonight - Yes agree, I use an edge finder. Started with the wiggler used it about 4 or 5 times. I forgot the name difference. Second - yes would have been best to find Y center off of the vice jaws. That was dumb mistake.
Differences in outer diameter was relatively small (was able to hold both securely in the vise - holes are only 1/8"). Next time around, I'd true up the OD on the lathe when boring.
put a piece of crush between the movable jaw
That's an excellent idea (as in obvious and I hadn't heard of it before) - I'll remember that for next time I have multiple slightly mismatched work or round stock between jaws.
Bore jaws in mill to part od .
This is also a good idea, however I've not yet had a positive experience boring on the mill. I've got a boring head with the set of braised carbide boring cutters, but have not been able to get a manageable cut when using them. I think it may partially be the lack of stiffness in my mill. My mill only has the quill handles (for a rapid, drill style feed) or a little tiny knob for a slower feed. It would be a real PIA to use that knob for a 2" deep bore.
I'm a lot more comfortable boring on the lathe with HSS and power feed. It still can be difficult getting it right. I need to check for some videos of boring on my class of machine (LMS HiTorque SX2.7). When I bore, at lower speeds everything want's to thrash around. Higher spindle speeds and the out of balance boring head vibrates the whole machine.
The only success I've had on the mill is very light cuts and feeds (and carbide likes heavier cuts?)