According to the manual that came with my PM-30 mill's DRO, the SINO 3-axis DROs have a Y+Z summing mode in lathe mode for when the cross slide is aligned with the lathe axis, but no vector summing. A lot of the kit vendors don't have 3-axis lathe kits available. If I can be satisfied with 5 micron, banggood currently has a sale on a-la-carte 21mm thick 5 micron glass scales and DROs. That's thinner than tpactools advertises for their otherwise apparently identical kit, though for all I know it's really the same size measured by different people.
BigA ASD8 scales at 17mm thick are the thinnest glass scales I've seen so far, and are available in 1 micron, and it looks like the BigA DROs have Y+Z summing if I haven't got my wires crossed. But so far I haven't found any US vendors.