It will help your carriage forces a lot if you drill a smaller hole first,so the flat,chisel end of the larger drill doesn't require as much force to push into the metal. You are exactly right: You can't feel the forces. When I start to drill with this setup,I'd keep an eye on the corner of the carriage to see if it shifts sideways a little bit,trying to twist. Use only very sharp drills and fine as possible feeds. Try feeding the carriage by hand and try to see how hard it is to feed the drill along.
Actually,you'd be just about as well off hand feeding the carriage,since with a quick motion,you can withdraw the drill anyway,with the carriage hand wheel. I'd use the drilling attachment in that manner,and forget power feeding. What you really wanted anyway was to not have to mess with cranking the tailstock back,and you have it with this attachment.
Don't forget either: The gear that engages the rack is a LITTLE gear. On an Asian machine,it likely is not heat treated. When I had a 12" Atlas,I think I had to replace that little gear,which was no larger than a quarter(25 cents). It was mounted on a 3/8" square teeny shaft,too,IIRC. SO,have mercy on the little gear!!