Those are some pretty tough requirements, especially if you want to do multiple motor controls. If I had not started down the path that I am on, I would probably go with a cheap low power PWM controller and add the proper MOSFET and power supply for driving a high power motor.
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This does pretty much what my controller would do for little more than the cost of the pot. Instead of driving the motor directly, I would drive an external MOSFET .
Add a 200v 20 amp bridge, a filter capacitor, and a power MOSFET and you're almost home. Yes it does require some work to maker a complete package but if you are making a bunch of them, you would have the advantage of having the same controller design for all your motors instead of a hodge podge of different controllers.
Heck, I might just order a couple for myself just to play with them.
My idea of a (near) perfect PWM controller would have some feedback from an encoder to provide rock solid speed control regardless of load, over current (stall) protection, and variable acceleration/deceleration. This in addition to return to preset speed and reversing, all with low EMI.
That is a future project though. My immediate goal is to have a basic functional VSD for my d.c. lather motor.