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One thing that can really help when cutting is to make sure you have tailstock support. I ALSO have better luck cutting with HSS instead of Carbide, (though I grind my own on the surface grinder), and ALWAYS run pretty slow when cutting threads.
Then, as Richard says, make sure your lathe is pretty tight. Acme has pretty serious tool pressure compared to 60 degree threads, so you're always going to be fighting SOME resistance. That said, I've done 4 TPI threads (though in mild steel) with little problems.