Can you use the top item, circuit breaker only for your need? There are other variations without the fuse/breaker, which is basically 3 phase switch, you would pull down and up a handle to turn on or off. Unless you want a touch to shutdown button style, which is like a toggle. 3 phase is a heavy duty and it's hard to have a light touch cut off. High voltage is also a danger. There may not be a simple solution and cheap for this. Unless you can find a used set up somewhere people don't use anymore and throw away. I keep a pile of them.