This can get complicated in ways that might have the answer be very variable.
The straight-pull force would depend surely on on how tight it was drawn in the first place, but a simple low force tugging, along with a little tap with a plastic faced hammer seems to have my MT2 let go easily. Of course, I may be experiencing something related to the possibly of "less than magnificent" bearing surfaces up the (tailstock) quill.
The (great
) wine bottle cap analogy may mean "normal" for both of us might be signalling we need to check out the condition of the taper up there. I have a (cheap) MT2 reamer set. The "roughing" cutter has toothed flutes, and the "finishing" one has straight edge flutes. These are strictly hand tools for "cleaning up" existing MT2 internal tapers. I gently tried the finish one, feeling for the kind of contact, and peeping up there to see what it might be doing. At my stage, I can't be getting adventurous to the extent of attempting to re-cut a internal taper. Although easy enough in principle, my knowledge of taper turning directly on my machine bits is so far, strictly books and YouTube! (OK then - I mean I would have to work up the nerve! )
My spindle taper is MT3, but the spindle is hardened. I expect any shenanigans around "improving" anything up there would involve toolpost grinders, and so far, given that the MT shanks do stick, and don't seem to slip, I don't expect to be messing with them. That said, they do come apart with a tug from one hand, along with a modest shock-tap from the plastic hammer, and I would rate the whole thing as being in wine-bottle cap territory.
[Edit: Please do let us not establish a casual de-facto release force unit rated in wine-bottle caps-worth! ]