If you see an obvious change in the height between the areas that support the carriage and the areas that don't, wear is present.
Put a straight edge across the ways, see if you can slip a feeler gauge under. Should be less than about 1.5 thousandths, but even more could be acceptable depending on the parts you intend to make and tolerances you need to hold. You may have issues making long parts to a very tight tolerance end to end, and deep boring operations may show slight taper.
Usually, the area just in front of the chuck is worn the most. Thus, when using collets and working close to the headstock, the carriage may bind. Conversely, when cranking the carriage down toward the tailstock, you may have binding again. This necessitates making a compromise when adjusting the carriage shims and rear carriage gib screws.
Lots of good parts can be made on worn lathes however. More important is how well the headstock spindle is aligned to the ways, and how well the tailstock is aligned with the headstock axis, as well as the condition of the gibs and the cutting tools used
-M