That seems a bit odd to me that its not locking properly with hand tightening. If its like most of the Asian machines, the threaded stud is acting on the gib strip which is then acting on the dovetail. When I removed the gib strip for my 14x40 lathe it had a series of little semi circular bite marks all down the strip. I think wrenching it would be even worse.
On my RF-45 mill, somewhat similar to yours, after DRO installation I could see there was always a bit of drift by the torque action of tightening. So I made a short brass shoe to match the 60-deg dovetail & a bearing ball on the stud end so there was no secondary displacement effects, just pure axial clamping action into the dovetail. I didn't do this with my 935 mill because it just stays put & DRO drift in the tenths, so I assumed just a better clamping arrangement although it looks like the same old stud method.
Not saying what you are doing is wrong, but might be worth a call into PM if there is some other reason.