I have found some at Gun shows, some at places like Cabellas, and some ordered on the internet (amazon). I like the solid ones, not the ones with the thin metal mesh over plastic. (harbor Freight). I have some from 400 to I think 1200 grit. Do a real nice job on knifes, so I figured they would do good on HSS, So far it seems to work for finishing, but I'm still learning. The ones I like are made from ez lap I think. They last a long time also. I do have a couple of old oil stones, Arkansas stones, and many others (ok I like sharp knives) but mainly use the diamond stones.
Grinder I have a Cheap HF one for now. Hope to get a better one when I find a good deal or make one.