A full width cut is neither climb nor conventional. It is kind of a mixture of both. With a face mill, it should be pretty much neutral (pushing with some of the cutter and pulling other parts). If using a fly cutter, there could be half the cut which could be in a climb direction.
It seems that you are trying to take too much. A 3/4" end mill is at the large end for an import 1500 lb mill. I had trouble cutting 4140 PH (or as forged) with large end mills. The import end mills were breaking down due to the heavy usage as well. This was at TechShop, since I wouldn't be using a loose mill at home, neither would I be using those boxed import end mills. I finally was able to complete the cut using a homemade single flute cobalt end mill. It was not pleasant, but it shows that the right tool for the job can help. Try a generic 1/2" carbide end mill, and lock all unused axes; keep everything tight.