Go with the AXA. I've had an AXA (Yuasa 100 Series, actually) on my 3996 since right after I bought it in 1981 and never had any reason to wish I had the larger set. There are 2 or 3 people who check in here from time to time who have BXA's on their 12" and say that they work fine. And there are some more who for one reason or another, mainly I think the seller's claims that a BXA fits 10 to 14 or 15, have put a BXA on their machine and reported later that they really wished that they hadn't. The main thing that you will get with the BXA is higher initial cost and higher on-going costs.
And as Cactus Farmer indicated below, get at least six 250-101 turning and facing holders (I have 11) and two or three 250-102 turning, boring and facing. If you have to change the cutter in a holder to do a job, you've lost part of the benefit of a Quick Change. If you have to change it during a job, you've lost all of it. The rest of the holders you'll probably never need more than 1 of.
Robert D.